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     Aim for progress, not perfection I had a long battle with anorexia. Those thoughts telling me that if I just lost X amount of ...

     Aim for progress, not perfection


I had a long battle with anorexia. Those thoughts telling me that if I just lost X amount of weight that I would have achieved, that I may be able to accept treatment, finally feel like I deserved it.
The trouble is that never happened. There was never a magic number. It was never enough. Whatever I did anorexia would still scream in my ear and make my mind feel like it was going to explode.
I chased those thoughts and followed those feelings, aiming for perfection, to feel like I had achieved something that would finally make me feel okay. To reach an impossible goal that would finally allow me to eat again.
Those thoughts landed me with one daycare and three inpatient admissions.
I thought I would never get well, that these thoughts would never go away. There was no way I was ever going to be able to have a normal relationship with food and I was going to be fighting this forever. It felt like nothing was helping. Nothing and no one could seemingly help me to beat anorexia. Recovery seemed like it was something that happened to other people.
I wanted to write this to say that if this sounds like you if this is how you feel then it’s okay! It’s okay to think these things – with what you are currently fighting it is totally understandable. 
However, it’s not true. These are the thoughts of anorexia playing with your mind, making you feel hopeless. I thought these things too and now I am nearly 10 years recovered from anorexia.
I soon learned that rushing recovery was one thing that was stopping me from recovering. I was trying to be not only perfect within anorexia but also to have a perfect recovery – both unreachable goals.
Each time I left the hospital at a “normal weight” with the “well done”and “look how far you’ve come”s I felt like I should be recovered; I thought that was what everyone thought. Sadly it is thought by some that if you are a “normal” weight then you must be anorexia free. This is simply not the case. Anorexia drives the symptoms and behaviors from the mind. The mind is where the issues are regardless of weight.
I learned to talk, to think about my life, including the things that I really didn’t want to think or talk about, to realize why I felt that my life was out of control and why I found it so hard to let the anorexia go. I learned to take it at my pace, to push against the anorexic thoughts little by little, and the more I did, the less power they had over time.
I let people in more who were trying to help as I had a terrible knack of pushing them away and so I slowly learned to try to do that less.
It was a long process and it most definitely wasn’t perfect. I still have times where I spend too long looking in the mirror analyzing my stomach with those familiar thoughts washing over me and it’s still horrible when that happens. The difference, however, is they come in waves and then they generally wash away without me being affected,
 I have learned to deal with them and recognize that voice for what it is, and I have learned not to listen to the extent I did. Consequently 99% of the time I live totally free from anorexia and any related behaviors, and any that do occur are minor thoughts that come and go.
If you are reading this thinking this will never be you, please know that I thought this too. I thought that recovery was something that other extraordinary beings did and I would never get there.
 I am approximately 10 years free from anorexia and its pull has got less each year that has passed. You can do this too. It is possible. Small steps, one foot in front of the other and aiming for progress, not perfection

                  Live A Progressive Life  Live A Progressive Life I want to believe that every person on planet earth wants to ...

                  Live A Progressive Life



 Live A Progressive Life


I want to believe that every person on planet earth wants to be successful one way or the other.
Although we may not aspire for the same things or pursue success to the same heights or levels, we all desire to be successful. However, what can be observed is that many people are in the doldrums of life; likened to a person sitting on a swing with much movement but going nowhere.
Some know what they want to achieve but don’t know how to set about making it a possibility. So today, I just want to touch on 10 things which can help to make living a progressive one.

1) Be honest with yourself:

 You must know what you are cut out to do! You are either good at something or you are not! There is no in between. You can do some things but you can’t do all things. Even the age old saying, ‘jack of all trade and master of none’, is not a compliment anyone can be proud of. Therefore, know your giftings and talents, stick to pursuing them.

2) Stop trying to be someone you are not:

  Don’t pursue a career, job or any endeavour because your friend or someone else excels in/at it. Don’t be a carbon copy of another person; you become a waste of space when you do so. It reminds me of the number of people who want to look like and be like Michael Jackson and other renowned celebrities.

3) Tackle problems, don’t run from them:

 Face your problems head on; ask yourself pertinent questions. Are you the cause of your problems or is someone else the cause? Do you need to stop doing the same thing over and over again in order to get a different result? Look for every way to solve the problem rather than passing the buck. In fact, I have read material and listened to enough teachings to understand that success in life results from solving problems for oneself and others.

4) Do away with the wrong people:

 The wrong people put you down and do not add to you. To make progress in life you must be a solution to someone’s challenges, and also connect with people who are a solution to your challenges. Look for people who encourage you to do great things.

5) Let go of the past, grab the present and work on the future

 If you are holding on to the past, you will not be able to take hold of the present, and the future may forever remain unattainable. God knew what He was getting before He took you on, so if He’s not caught unaware by your faults then cut yourself some slack too.

6) Stop being idle:

 Get up and go! Seek and implement ideas that will bless humanity.
What are you passionate about? What gives you pain? Dig deep within and come up with answers. Take responsibility for your own life, with God on your side you can make things happen. Whatever you do, don’t sit there doing nothing, do something!

7) Don’t be afraid of making a mistake

: No baby wakes up one day to start walking; babies crawl and stumble many times in the process of learning to walk. If you are to make progress then you will surely make mistakes. The fact that your last attempt at business failed does not mean you shouldn’t take another shot at it. Glean from others, do your research, and move on into the ideas that cross your mind.

8) Don’t buy into the thought that you’re not ready

 If you have to wait for the perfect time, you may miss out on your season. Each and everyone of us have to get beyond our comfort zones to achieve progress.

9) Be open to new relationships:

 You never know when God will bring a destiny helper your way; someone who will push you into your destiny. Do not let past relationships that failed deter you from getting into new ones.

10) Desist from worrying so much:

  if something is not going to matter in 1, 3 or 10 years, it’s probably not worth worrying over. Worrying is poison to the human system; so, stay clear of it.

 Important Features of Indian Society (Caste-Stratified Society) 1.  Segmental Division of Society: The Indian society stands div...

 Important Features of Indian Society (Caste-Stratified Society)


1. Segmental Division of Society:

The Indian society stands divided into several castes and the position of each caste is based on traditional importance. The position of each individual is related to the position of his caste group and right at the time of his birth he becomes a member of either a high caste or a low caste.
Each caste group has a definite and determinate set of rules in respect of relation with other castes. Usually inter-caste marriages are prohibited and no one can ever get out of his caste.

2. Social and Religious Hierarchy:

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Each caste group stands alone as a particular social group. For example, several castes are considered to be Brahmin castes while several others are considered to be Kashtriya castes.
Some castes are considered to be higher castes while others are considered to be lower castes. All the castes are bound by a well defined system of social and religious functions and relations. Social and religious hierarchy runs along the caste hierarchy.

3. Restrictions of Food-sharing and Social-intercourse:

The members of each social group are involved in exchange of relations among themselves. The higher class always tries to secure the formal purity of his caste. Each caste has its own caste culture which defines the food sharing and social intercourse rules which are to be followed by the members of the caste.

4. Endogamy System:

Each person gets placed in a particular caste at the time of his birth and he remains a member of his caste group throughout his life. Each member can marry persons belonging to his own caste groups. People of a Kshatriya caste can marry only in other Kshatriya castes. Usually no one can marry in his own sub-caste.

5. Caste-based Occupational Groups:

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Traditionally castes in the Indian society have been inseparably associated with several professions. Parental occupation is always considered a good and essential occupation for the new generation. Only the son of a purohit or pundit can perform the functions of a purohit or pundit.

6. Civil and Religious Disabilities:

Right from ancient times, the member of each class, particularly the members belonging to the lower class have to live with certain disabilities. A system of civil and religious disabilities has been traditionally associated with different caste groups. In ancient India persons belonging to some low castes were even not allowed to enter the cities and they were even not allowed to enter the schools.
Even some people used to be denied the right to study Vedas and other religious scriptures. As such several civil and religious disabilities were part and parcel of the Indian caste system and consequently of the Indian system of social stratification.
The Constitution of India prohibits inequalities and discriminations based upon caste, colour, creed, religion, race, sex, place of birth and any similar factor. Untouchability is a crime. Equal citizenship, equal rights and equal opportunities for development have been granted to all persons.
However, some Special protections have been given to the persons belonging to the Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes. This has been done to secure social equality in Indian society.
Indian society has been traditionally a caste-based stratified society. In the past, such stratification acted as a source of inequalities and exploitation of members of some castes by the members of the so-called high castes.
Now the system has been changing and the Constitution of India has laid down several laws for securing the objective of social, economic political justice and equality of status and opportunity for all. Caste based rigid social stratification has been now undergoing changes and the role of the caste is getting diluted in the Indian society.

         Indian Society and Ways of Living Hierarchy India is a hierarchical society. Whether in north India or south India, Hind...

         Indian Society and Ways of Living


Hierarchy

India is a hierarchical society. Whether in north India or south India, Hindu or Muslim, urban or village, virtually all things, people, and social groups are ranked according to various essential qualities. Although India is a political democracy, notions of complete equality are seldom evident in daily life.
Societal hierarchy is evident in caste groups, amongst individuals, and in family and kinship groups. Castes are primarily associated with Hinduism, but caste-like groups also exist among Muslims, Indian, Christians, and other religious communities. Within most villages or towns, everyone knows the relative rankings of each locally represented caste, and behavior is constantly shaped by this knowledge.
Individuals are also ranked according to their wealth and power. For example, some powerful people, or “big men,” sit confidently on chairs, while “little men” come before them to make requests, either standing or squatting not presuming to sit beside a man of high status as an equal.
Hierarchy plays an important role within families and kinship groupings also, where men outrank women of similar age, and senior relatives outrank junior relatives. Formal respect is accorded family members—for example, in northern India, a daughter-in-law shows deference to her husband, to all senior in-laws, and to all daughters of the household. Siblings, too, recognize age differences, with younger siblings addressing older siblings by respectful terms rather than by name.

Purity and Pollution

Many status differences in Indian society are expressed in terms of ritual purity and pollution, complex notions that vary greatly among different castes, religious groups, and regions. Generally, high status is associated with purity and low status with pollution. Some kinds of purity are inherent; for example, a member of a high-ranking Brahmin, or priestly, caste is born with more inherent purity than someone born into a low-ranking sweeper, or scavenger, caste. Other kinds of purity are more transitory—for example, a Brahmin who has just taken a bath is more ritually pure than a Brahmin who has not bathed for a day.
Purity is associated with ritual cleanliness—daily bathing in flowing water, dressing in freshly laundered clothes, eating only the foods appropriate for one’s caste, and avoiding physical contact with people of significantly lower rank or with impure substances, such as the bodily wastes of another adult. Involvement with the products of death or violence is usually ritually polluting.

Social Interdependence

One of the great themes pervading Indian life is social interdependence. People are born into groups—families, clans, subcastes, castes, and religious communities—and feel a deep sense of inseparability from these groups. People are deeply involved with others, and for many, the greatest fear is the possibility of being left alone, without social support. Psychologically, family members typically experience intense emotional interdependence. Economic activities, too, are deeply imbedded in a social nexus. Through a multitude of kinship ties, each person is linked with kin in villages and towns near and far. Almost everywhere a person goes, he can find a relative from whom he can expect moral and practical support.
In every activity, social ties can help a person and the absence of them can bring failure. Seldom do people carry out even the simplest tasks on their own. When a small child eats, his mother puts the food into his mouth with her own hand. When a girl brings water home from the well in pots on her head, someone helps her unload the pots. A student hopes that an influential relative or friend can facilitate his college admission. A young person anticipates that parents will arrange his or her marriage. Finally, a person facing death expects that relatives will conduct the proper funeral rites ensuring his own smooth passage to the next stage of existence and reaffirming social ties among mourners.
This sense of interdependence extends into the theological realm. From birth onward, a child learns that his “fate” has been “written” by divine forces and that his life is shaped by powerful deities with whom an ongoing relationship must be maintained.

Family and Kinship

Family Ideals

The essential themes of Indian cultural life are learned within the bosom of a family. The joint family is highly valued, ideally consisting of several generations residing, working, eating, and worshiping together. Such families include men related through the male line, along with their wives, children, and unmarried daughters. A wife usually lives with her husband’s relatives, although she retains important bonds with her natal family. Even in rapidly modernizing India, the traditional joint household remains for most Indians the primary social force, in both ideal and practice.
Large families tend to be flexible and well suited to modern Indian life, especially for the more than two-thirds of Indians who are involved in agriculture. As in most primarily agricultural societies, cooperating kin help provide mutual economic security. The joint family is also common in cities, where kinship ties are often crucial to obtaining employment or financial assistance. Many prominent families, such as the Tatas, Birlas, and Sarabhais, retain joint family arrangements as they cooperate in controlling major financial empires.
The ancient ideal of the joint family retains its power, but today actual living arrangements vary widely. Many Indians live in nuclear families—-a couple with their unmarried children—-but belong to strong networks of beneficial kinship ties. Often, clusters of relatives live as neighbors, responding readily to their kinship obligations.
As they expand, joint families typically divide into smaller units, which gradually grow into new joint families, continuing a perpetual cycle. Today, some family members may move about to take advantage of job opportunities, typically sending money home to the larger family.

Family Authority and Harmony

In the Indian household, lines of hierarchy and authority are clearly drawn, and ideals of conduct help maintain family harmony. [i] All family members are socialized to accept the authority of those above them in the hierarchy. The eldest male acts as family head, and his wife supervises her daughters-in-law, among whom the youngest has the least authority. Reciprocally, those in authority accept responsibility for meeting the needs of other family members.
Family loyalty is a deeply held ideal, and family unity is emphasized, especially in distinction to those outside the kinship circle. Inside the household, ties between spouses and between parents and their own children are de-emphasized to enhance a wider sense of family harmony. For example, open displays of affection between husbands and wives are considered highly improper.
Traditionally, males have controlled key family resources, such as land or businesses, especially in high-status groups. Following traditional Hindu law, women did not inherit real estate and were thus beholden to their male kin who controlled land and buildings. Under Muslim customary law, women can—and do—inherit real estate, but their shares have typically been smaller than those of males. Modern legislation allows all Indian women to inherit real estate. Traditionally, for those families who could afford it, women have controlled some wealth in the form of precious jewelry.

Veiling and the Seclusion of Women

A significant aspect of Indian family life is purdah (from Hindi parda, or “curtain”), or the veiling and seclusion of women. In much of northern and central India, particularly in rural areas, Hindu and Muslim women follow complex rules of veiling the body and avoidance of public appearance, especially before relatives linked by marriage and before strange men. Purdah practices are linked to patterns of authority and harmony within the family. Hindu and Muslim purdah observances differ in certain key ways, but female modesty and decorum as well as concepts of family honor and prestige are essential to the various forms of purdah. Purdah restrictions are generally stronger for women of conservative high-status families. [ii] Restriction and restraint for women in virtually every aspect of life are essential to purdah, limiting women’s access to power and to the control of vital resources in a male-dominated society. Sequestered women should conceal their bodies and even their faces with modest clothing and veils before certain categories of people, avoid extramarital relations, and move about in public only with a male escort. Poor and low-status women often practice attenuated versions of veiling as they work in the fields and on construction gangs.
Hindu women of conservative families veil their faces and remain silent in the presence of older male in-laws, both at home and in the community. A young daughter-in-law even veils from her mother-inlaw. These practices emphasize respect relationships, limit unapproved encounters, and enhance family lines of authority.
For Muslims, veiling is especially stressed outside the home, where a conservative woman may wear an all-enveloping black burka. Such purdah shelters women—-and the sexual inviolability of the family-— from unrelated unknown men.
In south India, purdah has been little practiced, except in certain minority groups. In northern and central India today, purdah practices are diminishing, and among urbanites and even the rural elite, they are rapidly vanishing. Chastity and female modesty are still highly valued, but as education and employment opportunities for women increase, veiling has all but disappeared in progressive circles.

Life Passages

The birth of an infant is celebrated with rites of welcome and blessing, typically much more elaborate for a boy than for a girl. Although India boasts many eminent women and was once led by a powerful woman prime minister, Indira Gandhi, and while goddesses are extensively worshiped in Hindu rituals, statistics reveal that girls are, in fact, disadvantaged in India. The 2001 Census counted only 933 females per 1000 males, reflecting sex-selective abortion, poorer medical care and nutrition, and occasional infanticide targeting females. [iii] Parents favor boys because their value in agricultural activities tends to be higher, and after marriage a boy continues residing with his parents, supporting them as they age. In contrast, a girl drains family resources, especially when a large dowry goes with her to her husband’s home. In recent decades, demands for dowries have become quite exorbitant in certain groups.
Marriage is deemed essential for virtually everyone in India, marking the great watershed in life for the individual. For most of Hindu northern and central India, marriages are arranged within the caste between unrelated young people who may never have met. Among some south Indians communities and many Muslims, families seek to strengthen existing kin ties through marriages with cousins whenever possible. For every parent, finding the perfect partner for one’s child is a challenging task. People use their existing social networks, and increasingly, matrimonial newspaper advertisements. The advertisements usually announce religion, caste, educational qualifications, physical features, and earning capacity, and may hint at dowry size (even though giving or accepting dowries is actually illegal).
Among the highly educated, brides and grooms sometimes find each other in college or professional settings. So-called love marriages are becoming less scandalous than in previous years. Among Indian residents of North America, brides and grooms often meet through South Asian matrimonial websites. Many self-arranged marriages link couples of different castes but similar socioeconomic status.
Usually, a bride lives with her husband in his parental home, where she should accept the authority of his senior relatives, perform household duties, and produce children—especially sons—to enhance his family line. Ideally, she honors her husband, proudly wears the cosmetic adornments of a married woman, and cheerfully fulfills her new role. If she is fortunate, her husband will treat her with consideration, treasure her contributions to his household, and allow her continuing contact with her natal relatives. For many young wives, this is a difficult transition. While some negative stigma is still attached to women’s employment in many circles, an increasing number of women are working in a variety of occupations.
Death causes the restructuring of any family. The demise of a woman’s husband brings the dreaded status of inauspicious widowhood. Widows of low-status groups have always been allowed to remarry, but widows of high rank have been expected to remain chaste until death.

Caste and Class

Varna, Caste, and Other Divisions

Social inequality exists throughout the world, but perhaps nowhere has inequality been so elaborately constructed as in the Indian institution of caste. Caste has existed for many centuries, but in the modern period it has been severely criticized and is undergoing significant change.
Castes are ranked, named, endogamous (in-marrying) groups, membership in which is achieved by birth. There are thousands of castes and subcastes in India, involving hundreds of millions of people. These large kinship-based groups are fundamental to South Asian social structure. Caste membership provides a sense of belonging to a recognized group from whom support can be expected in a variety of situations.
The word caste derives from the Portuguese casta, meaning species, race, or kind. Among Indian terms sometimes translated as caste are varna, jati, jat, biradri, and samaj. Varna, or color, actually refers to four large categories that include numerous castes. The other terms refer to castes and subdivisions of castes often called subcastes.
Many castes are associated with traditional occupations, such as priests, potters, barbers, carpenters, leatherworkers, butchers, and launderers. Members of higher-ranking castes tend to be more prosperous than members of lower-ranking castes, who often endure poverty and social disadvantage. The so-called “Untouchables” were traditionally relegated to polluting tasks. Since 1935, “Untouchables” have been known as “Scheduled Castes,” and Mahatma Gandhi called them Harijans, or “Children of God.” Today, the politically correct term for these groups, who make up some 16% of the population, is Dalit, or “Oppressed.” Other groups, usually called tribes (often referred to as “Scheduled Tribes”) are also integrated into the caste system to varying degrees.
In past decades, Dalits in certain areas had to display extreme deference to high-status people and were barred from most temples and wells. Such degrading discrimination was outlawed under legislation passed during British rule and was repudiated by preindependence reform movements led by Mahatma Gandhi and Bhimrao Ramji (B.R.) Ambedkar, a Dalit leader. After independence in 1947, Dr. Ambedkar almost single-handedly wrote India’s constitution, including provisions barring caste-based discrimination. However, Dalits as a group still suffer significant disadvantages, especially in rural areas.
Within castes, explicit standards are maintained. Rules of marriage, diet, dress, occupation, and other behaviors are enforced, often by a caste council (panchayat). Infringements can be punished by fines and temporary or permanent outcasting. Individuals and caste groups can hope to rise slowly on the hierarchy through economic success and adoption of high-caste behaviors. However, it is virtually impossible for an individual to raise his own status by falsely claiming to belong to a higher caste; a deception of this kind is easily discovered.
In rural areas, many low-caste people still suffer from landlessness, unemployment, and discriminatory practices. In the growing cities, however, caste affiliations are often unknown to casual associates, and traditional restrictions on intercaste interactions are fading fast. In some urbane circles, intercaste marriages linking mates of similar class status have become acceptable. Correlations between caste and occupations are declining rapidly.
In recent years, key changes have occurred in caste observances. It is now legally and socially unacceptable to openly advocate any caste’s superiority or inferiority, and lower caste groups are flexing their political muscle. Even as traditional hierarchies weaken, caste identities are being reinforced, especially among disadvantaged groups with rights to special educational benefits and substantial quotas reserved for them of electoral offices and government jobs. In protest against Hinduism’s rigid rankings, thousands of Dalits have embraced Buddhism, following the example of the revered B.R. Ambedkar. [iv]

Classes

Most Indians reside in villages, where caste and class affiliations overlap. Large landholders are overwhelmingly upper caste, and smallscale farmers middle caste, while landless laborers typically belong to the lowest-ranking castes. These groups tend to form a three-level class system of stratification in rural areas, and members of the groups are drawing together within regions across caste lines in order to enhance their economic and political power. For example, since the late 1960s, some of the middle-ranking cultivating castes of northern India, spurred by competition with higher-caste landed elites, have cooperated politically in order to advance their common economic interests.v In cities, class lines adhere less obviously to caste affiliations, as vested interests strongly crosscut caste boundaries.
When looking at India as a whole, defining classes is a difficult task, rife with vague standards. According to various estimates, the upper classes include about one percent of the population, or some ten million people, encompassing wealthy property owners, industrialists, former royalty, top executives, and prosperous entrepreneurs. Slightly below them are the many millions of the upper middle class. At the other end of the scale is approximately half of India’s population, including low-level workers of many kinds, as well as hundreds of millions of extremely poor people, who endure grossly inadequate housing and education and many other economic hardships.
But the big development in India is the rapid expansion of a prosperous middle class increasingly dictating the country’s political and economic direction. [vi] Estimated at perhaps 300 million people—-more than the entire population of the United States-—this new vanguard, straddling town and countryside and all religious communities, is mobile, driven, consumer-oriented, and, to some extent, forward-looking. This group includes prosperous farmers, white-collar workers, business and professional people, military personnel, and a multitude of others, all enjoying decent homes, reasonable incomes, and educated and healthy children. Most own televisions and telephones, and many possess cars and computers. Large numbers have close ties with prosperous relatives living abroad.

Village Structure and Unity

About three-fourths of India’s people live in some 500,000 villages, where India’s most basic business—agriculture takes place. Most villages have fewer than 1,000 inhabitants, but some have as many as 5,000 people. Indian villages are often quite complex and are not isolated socially or economically. Most villages include a multiplicity of economic, caste, kinship, occupational, and even religious groups linked vertically within each settlement. Residents typically range from priests and cultivators to merchants, artisans, and laborers. Various crucial horizontal linkages connect each village with many others and with urban areas both near and far. In daily life and at colorful festivals and rituals, members of various groups provide essential goods and services for one another.
Traditionally, villages often recognized a headman and a panchayat, a council composed of important local men. Usually, disputes were adjudicated within the village, with infrequent recourse to the police or courts. Today, the government supports an elective panchayat and headman system, which is distinct from the traditional system, and, in many cases, mandates the inclusion of members who are women or very low caste. According to a schedule rotating every few years, the head of the council of a certain percentage of villages must be a woman or a Dalit. State and federal government regulations increasingly intrude into village life, diminishing traditional systems of authority. Further, dissent and competitiveness seem to have increased in many parts of rural India as a result of the expanding involvement of villagers with the wider world via travel, work, education, and television, and increased pressure on land and resources as village populations grow.

Urban Life

The acceleration of urbanization is profoundly affecting the transformation of Indian society. Slightly more than one-quarter of the country’s population is urban. Mumbai (Bombay) is currently the sixth largest urban area in the world at 18 million, and Kolkata (Calcutta) ranks fourteenth at 13 million. In recent years, India’s largest cities have grown at twice the rate of its small towns and villages, with many of the increases due to rural-urban migration.
The largest cities are densely populated, congested, noisy, polluted, and deficient in clean water, electricity, sanitation, and decent housing. Slums abound, often cheek-by-jowl with luxury apartment buildings, with the roads overrun with pedestrians, cattle, refuse, and vehicles spewing diesel fumes.
Traditional caste hierarchies are weak in cities, but caste ties remain important, as scarce jobs are often obtained through caste fellows, relatives, and friends. Ingenuity and tenacity characterize poor urban workers supporting themselves through a multitude of tasks as entrepreneurs, petty traders, and menial laborers.
The ranks of the growing middle class are increasingly evident in cities, where educational and employment opportunities benefit them. For them, as for all in the city, linkages are affirmed through neighborhood solidarity, voluntary associations, and festival celebrations.
Cities, of course, are the great hubs of commerce, education, science, politics, and government, upon which the functioning of the nation depends. India’s movie industry is the world’s largest, centered in Mumbai and Chennai, and popular television stations are proliferating. These bring vivid depictions of urban lifestyles to small-town dwellers and villagers all over the country, affecting the aspirations of millions.
Social revolutions, too, receive the support of urban visionaries, such as those shaping the growing women’s movement. Largely led by educated urban women, the movement seeks gender justice on a wide variety of issues, focusing particularly on the escalating issue of dowry-related murders of young wives, which number in the thousands annually. The overwhelming economic needs of poor female workers are being addressed by organizations such as the Self-Employed Women’s Association (SEWA) of Ahmedabad, led by Ela Bhatt.

Future Trends

Now numbering over one billion, India’s population grew by more than 18 million—the equivalent of an Australia—every year over the past decade. In ten years, the most populous state, Uttar Pradesh, expanded more than 25 percent to some 166 million, equal to 60 percent of the population of the United States. India supports a population more than three and a half times the size of the American population in an area about one-third the size. Family planning is gaining in popularity, so the rate of population increase is gradually declining, but it is estimated that by the year 2050, India’s people will number some 1.5 billion, and India will have surpassed China as the world’s most populous nation.
In India’s vociferous democracy, different groups are increasingly demanding their share of scarce resources and benefits. While new agricultural crops and techniques are expanding productivity, forests, rangeland, and water tables are diminishing. As competition grows, political, social, ecological, and economic issues are hotly contested. Justice in matters pertaining to class, gender, and access to desirable resources remains an elusive goal.
India is but one of many nations facing these crucial problems and is not alone in seeking solutions. For many centuries, the people of India have shown strength in creating manageable order from complexity, bringing together widely disparate groups in structured efforts to benefit the wider society, encouraging harmony among people with divergent interests, knowing that close relatives and friends can rely upon each other, allocating different tasks to those with different skills, and striving to do what is morally right in the eyes of the divine and the community. These are some of the great strengths upon which Indian society can rely as it seeks to meet the challenges of the future.

Progressivism Jonah is a new teacher, and he's heard a lot about different types of teaching philosophies. When he was ...




Progressivism

Jonah is a new teacher, and he's heard a lot about different types of teaching philosophies. When he was growing up, the teacher just stood in the front of the classroom and told him what he needed to learn. For homework, he would read his textbook, and that was that.
But some of the other teachers at his school say that he should focus more on progressivism, or the idea that education comes from the experience of the child. This theory was started in America in the late 19th century and continued to develop through the first half of the 20th century.
American educator John Dewey was a key figure in progressivism. He believed that children should experience democracy in school to make them better citizens. Instead of having an all-knowing teacher standing up front and talking, the students themselves should be an active part of their education, according to Dewey.
Jonah is intrigued by these ideas, but he isn't sure how to apply them in his classroom. Let's look closer at how he can put together a progressive classroom for his students.

The Whole Child

Remember that progressivism believes that education comes from the experience of the child. As such, children are the focus of a progressive classroom.
Take Jonah, for example: when he was in school, the teacher was the focus of the classroom. The teacher stood in the front and told the students what he or she wanted them to know. The center of gravity of the classroom was with the teacher; everything revolved around him or her.
But in a progressive classroom, the center of gravity is within each child. That is, progressive education revolves around the child's needs, not around the teacher or a prescribed curriculum. If Jonah wants to teach fractions, but one of the students is still struggling with basic division, then Jonah will have to work with that student on division until he or she is ready to move on to fractions.
Another major part of progressivism is teaching the whole child. That is, teaching students to be good citizens and not just good learners. For example, Jonah could design a unit that explores issues like human rights or why voting is important. He could choose literature that teaches students values, like honesty and justice. In this way, he would be teaching the children how to be good citizens and not just teaching them facts and figures.
A final concept of progressivism that focuses on children is the idea that children live and learn in a community. That is, children aren't isolated from others in the real world, and they shouldn't be isolated from others in their learning community. In progressive education, children often collaborate on projects and learn from one another.
How can Jonah use the learning community to help his students? He could design assignments so that the students are working in pairs or groups so that they can learn together. He can also encourage a community that values learning and encourages students to talk about what they are doing in class, even when they are in the lunchroom or on the playground.

Tips to prepare for an uncertain future Create your plan. And a plan B. The future gets brighter the moment you prepare for it. The ...

Tips to prepare for an uncertain future
Create your plan. And a plan B. The future gets brighter the moment you prepare for it.
The world is changing faster than most people can process. We talk about that a lot around here. “What just happened?” “What does that mean?” Every change that happens in the world has a ripple effect—it affects not just you, but your family, your loved ones, your friends, and your colleagues.
Some people though, literally seem to be able to sleep better at night. To those of us who can’t it’s often puzzling. These people seem smart! Centered! Grounded! Why doesn’t anything seem to faze them? What do they know that I don’t?
Here’s one way to look at it. The ability to remain at ease in the face of uncertainty might just be this. Knowing you have a plan. And knowing you have a plan B.
Here are seven ideas for how to think about your plan A and plan B in the age of uncertainty.
1. The difference between saving a dollar every day and losing a dollar every day is profound. It doesn’t matter the amount. But the first thing to think about in getting your finances together is getting ahead every month—even if it’s just by a very small amount. Can you find a place to cut a dollar? Earn an extra $10 a week? If that’s what’s needed, that’s what’s needed. Debt is not a bad thing on its own. You simply need a plan to manage for it. And if you do have debt, than protecting against loss in other areas might be more important than ever.
2. Instead of thinking “what’s in it for me” think “what’s in it for us.”Financial planning is a team effort. How do my plans affect not just me, but you? Whether you are sitting on opposite sides of the negotiating table or side by side on the couch with your loved one—talk things through, be clear about your financial goals, and create a vision of a future together.
3. Life events will happen! That’s why it’s called life! Don’t be caught unawares and let the big life events sneak up on you. Houses, cars, travel. Maybe you’ll have kids and they’ll have to learn to drive (gulp). Maybe there will be weddings and grandkids, jobs that disappear, or new jobs that are needed. Chances are there’s a lot that’s going to happen to you. Here’s where the “plan A and plan B” really comes in handy. Plan, prepare, and protect. Protecting the assets you have will allow you to prepare for the next major event that’s bound to come rolling around.
4. Think about insurance as part of every major financial decision you make. But sometimes, set aside time to just think about insurance. For every life event, know that insurance is going to have to be part of the decision-making process. But sometimes it is helpful to have an “insurance review” and go over all of your insurance coverage for your major life events. Here’s an example of how helpful that process can be—by switching your auto insurance to Progressive you could save $620. And bundling your insurance together at Progressive can save you even more.
5. Have “go-to” people who can help you every step of the way. Having people you can reach to in times of change can get you through even the most uncertain of times. You don’t need to know everything. You just need to know people and organizations you can trust to fill in the gaps for what you don’t know.
6. The ability to think about the unthinkable. Some people call it courage. Others call it being an adult. No one likes to think about potential catastrophic events. No one likes to review the “what if” scenarios, to make a plan for each one. Heck, few people even like to think about insurance. But knowing you have a plan for making insurance planning a part of your life, once you have a company like Progressive you know and trust to keep things affordable—it all gets easier.
7. Tomorrow just might be brighter. Tomorrow is often brighter for those people who plan today how to make it happen. Don’t let uncertainty prevent you from making the decisions that can improve your life in the future.